stats count I was dress-coded by Paula in HR -she said I ‘beg for attention’ with ‘distracting’ dresses, but I can’t see a problem – Meer Beek

I was dress-coded by Paula in HR -she said I ‘beg for attention’ with ‘distracting’ dresses, but I can’t see a problem


A WOMAN has revealed that she has been slammed by a woman in the HR department at her office, for her “distracting” outfits.

The woman revealed that she had received an email from a woman named Paula, in HR about the outfits she wears to the office.

a woman in a black dress stands in front of a white wall
A woman has been slammed over her work outfits
Tiktok/@ultimatebykomi
a woman in a black dress is standing in a bathroom next to a plant .
Colleagues said she was “begging for attention”
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“Apparently, it’s inappropriate, but I don’t think it’s too bad”, she said.

The woman then stepped back to reveal the dress in question, a very tight, bodycon mini dress, which barely covered her bum.

She then went to chat to her colleague Matt, to ask him what he thought of the outfit.

“I think it’s appropriate work attire”, Matt said.

The next day, the woman went in for her meeting with Paula, wearing a short wrap dress, with a low cut top.

“It is low cut, but who cares?”, she said.

During the meeting, Paula said that she was disappointed with the outfit the woman had chosen, and described it as being “distracting”.

Paula added that other members of staff had made comments on the woman’s outfits, suggesting she was “begging for attention”.

“I don’t think that’s my fault if I’m distracting other members of staff”, she said.

Paula then asked if the woman was going to change her outfits, and she replied stating that she would go shopping at the weekend.


The TikTok, which was reposted by the @ultimatebykomi account page, has garnered a lot of attention, racking up over 3.9 million views on the video sharing platform.

TikTok users raced to the video’s comments sections to share their thoughts, with many taking Paula’s side.

One person said: “I was soo ready to be on your side and then you stepped back from the camera.”

Five workwear essentials

By Clemmie Fieldsend

Fabulous Fashion Editor Clemmie Fieldsend shared the five workwear essentials everyone should have.

1. WHITE SHIRT 

A good white shirt is so versatile. Great for wearing on their own or layering underneath knits and transforming plain jumpers by adding cuff and collar detail, as well as wearing open over plain tops. 

2. WIDE LEG TROUSERS

They’ve become a wardrobe staple over recent years as they are comfortable, flattering and will elevate your workwear. Look out for styles with pleating or darting. 

3. PRACTICAL TOTE 

for a day at work or on your commute you’ll need all your essentials with you, cram them all into a sleek and stylish tote bag in a neutral colour like black, brown or beige so it can be used with all of your outfits. 

4. TAILORED BLAZER 

Even if worn with torn jeans a tailored blazer will instantly make you look polished and smart for work. Black will be the most useful and look for silhouettes with structure. 

5. SIMPLE LOAFER 

Whether you like delicate or chunky, a flat and comfortable shoe is essential for everyday use and can look just as dressy as a heel.  

A second person said: “Are you being serious? That’s way too short for work.”

A third person said: “As an HR professional, I agree. It is not office attire. Super cute, but not for work.”

However, others rushed to the defence of the woman.

One person said: “It is their problem if they are getting distracted.”

Another person said: “Why does work attire even exist?

“If it’s not customer facing, who cares?”

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